Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Cheerful Givers

I think we all run into a moral dilemma the first time we encounter a homeless man asking for change on the streets. We can live such sheltered lives, and then reality can smack us right outside our front door. Usually, people's thoughts are that you don't really know what the homeless-in-question is going to spend money on, be it drugs or worse, so while it's okay and even admirable to buy them some Whataburger (they don't have those here in South Carolina), they hesitate to give them any money.

It's not an easy dilemma. My default approach used to be to give them five or ten dollar bills from my wallet, and I think I had good moral reason to do so. I used to rationalize, "Well, if they spend the money unwisely, then that's on them, but if I don't give them what I can, then that's on me."

There's solid biblical precedent for that -- Ezekiel 18 stipulates that "the righteousness of the righteous shall be on himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be on himself." In other words, I can only be responsible for the decisions I make to give or not to give, not what someone does with my charity. Matthew 25 says that when Jesus returns, He will say, "Inasmuch as you did to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me." James 2 claims, "If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, 'Depart in peace, be warm and filled,' but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit?"

I based this approach partially on my experience with the homeless. My freshman year, at a Denny's in Dallas, my friends Jesse and Austin and I sat down with three homeless guys and paid for their meal in exchange for about an hour's worth of conversation: their names were Devil, Dave, and some other colorful name. They told me their life stories, and if I were to take them at face value, then they and I have shared the same circumstances. Devil said that he was born "with a silver spoon in his mouth" and described how his life had taken a downturn with a series of bad decisions. The other two were Army veterans, with Dave leaving the Army as recently as the Gulf War. They talked about the concrete morality of living on the street -- the territorialism, the camaraderie, the daily dependency on and hope for the provision of food or warmth that drove some to God and some away. It was an eye-opening evening because I realized we had a lot in common. I think we start to get into trouble any time we think we're above a bad decision -- we are not above any vice -- so the fact that they came from the same life I was living was a humbling testimony to God's grace and a cautionary admonition to live wisely.

The next year, my friend Austin and I ran into a homeless guy under a bridge in Dallas. We decided to bring him some fast food and talked with him for a while -- it turns out he knew Devil, the man we'd met last year. After we'd talked for some time, the man looked around, and then reached into some bushes and pulled out two boxes of food. He gave them to us. We were puzzled to receive food from a homeless man, but he explained that the boxes were full of pasta and rice and other dry starches, and since he didn't have a stove, they were no good to him, so we might as well re-distribute them. It's not every day you lift two boxes of food from a homeless guy.

One of the best things I got to experience at Rice was Church in the Park. I probably only went less than a dozen times, but each time was memorable. A group of five to ten Rice students would either cook up or collect a large amount of food in galvanized steel trays, then take them across Main Street to Hermann Park where a large group of homeless people would've already congregated. What followed was not an event of charity, but a collective meal and church service, usually led by one of the students. But I got to meet all sorts of people and see the reality of their needs, but more than that, the reality of who they were. Former Marine captains, electrical engineers, drug addicts, people from all over the country. Were there deserving poor? Probably, if there is such a thing, but there were undeserving poor too.

Nowadays when I see a homeless person on the street, I try to sit and talk to them and find out where they're coming from and where they're going, and see if I can help with a few kind words. I'm making myself out to sound really altruistic, and I don't mean to -- I've just realized that with all the needs and situations and perspectives of the people out there in the streets of the world, to simplify the question down to "do I give them money or not" is unsatisfactory, oversimplifying, and kind of patronizing. Jesus lived with these people -- He was effectively homeless while He was on this earth -- and He looked at them and He loved them.

Recently, I've been introduced to some compelling arguments for not opening the wallet whenever I see a homeless person. For one thing, I'm told, we do have limited resources. We have limited time and money, and if we invest it in one thing, then we won't be able to spend it elsewhere, so we do have to be good stewards and prioritize what we do with God's resources. It's true. I mean, it's true both ways. Jesus said not to cast pearls to swine. I probably shouldn't empty my bank account and give it to the next decrepit-looking person I see. In 2 Corinthians 11:9, Paul emphasizes that it was edifying for him not to burden the church at Corinth financially -- we don't want to run ourselves or our families into debt by mindlessly giving, or make it so we're unable to give anymore. At the same time, I think there's room for error in thinking, "I can't give any money away now -- I'm saving it to support missions next summer." Who knows where you or your money will be next summer? We can severely limit what God does with us if we don't allow room for Him to guide us. I guess in sum, I think we should be wise and shrewd, but we border on self-righteousness if we don't ever allow ourselves to give.

Here's another argument, and it's a better one. What's best for the homeless? I mean, what a question. Some may only need to accrue some cash to jump-start finding a job and a place to stay or to get back to their families. But for some, they do need to hit rock-bottom. Kurt told me about when he was working with a homeless ministry in another city, and the ministry had everything for the homeless -- free education and training, a sheltered place to stay, food provisions, job connections -- and all people had to do was to pledge to give up their vices of drugs, violence, and the other things that were killing themselves and hurting those around them. But many homeless refused -- they could get hundreds of dollars a day begging on the streets, and they openly stated that they'd rather live their own lives, since they could afford to get away with it. Kurt mentioned the time he saw one of them actually take out a fat wad of bills to help pay for a pizza. By giving these homeless money, well-meaning donors were inadvertently funding people's ability to live in sin, instead of letting them hit a rough patch that might have spurred them to repentance and redemption.

I've seen some of that too. Some people would rather live on their own terms than repent and be transformed -- they like their vices and they can get away with living their lives that way. Don't we all?

But I have to be careful. Whenever I can rationalize myself out of doing something legalistic, I swing the pendulum to the lazy side. When I came to the opinion that there was nothing particularly pertinent about 10% tithing, I said to myself, it's not necessarily important that I give exactly 10.0%, and within a matter of weeks, I wasn't giving anything. Lazy. It was the same for a while with encountering the homeless -- after talking to Kurt, I accidentally made an excuse for myself not to give money away, and as a result, I began to feel relieved when I didn't have money in my pockets because then I could guilt-free say, "Sorry, don't have any cash," instead of mumbling something ashamedly and incomprehensibly when I did have some cash on me. How messed up is that? It's the opposite of love.

I think I'm ready to start giving money again. I'm going to be smart about it, and I'm going to try to see the whole picture. Whether or not there are good shelters in the area to point people to. Whether or not this person has a family to take care of him, or whether he knows that he has a God who loves him. The money is only part of the picture of loving people. But the real truth is that the money is not mine, and my life is not mine -- it'll all have to start with surrendering them to God.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Further Bulletins as Events Warrant

- I just ready Ezekiel 16 for the second time, and it might be my new favorite chapter of the Bible. Like many have said, there's both art and science in communication, and the way that book tells the story of God and His people is art that touches the soul.

- And that's about as corny as this blog will ever get.

- I was thinking of sending monthly updates to people back home. I thought, yeah, I'm just going to nuclear power school, not a mission or project or ministry or anything, but if I'm supposed to live a missional life, then I should have some stuff to write about, right? Well, my average day these days is, I wake up at 5:30am, go to work, study hard until 7:30pm or so, with short lunch break, then repeat. So I don't know if I can make updates to my life any more interesting without lying shamelessly.

- My next entry will probably be on the homeless.

- If anyone has any extra Don Miller books, I'd like to have them, so send them to me. Now that I've gotten over the fact that they're just good reads and honest thoughts, rather than actual solid doctrine, I've started to enjoy them without that chip on my shoulder that precluded previous enjoyment thereof. That's what this blog is, too -- honest thoughts, not doctrine by any means.

If there's anything I would say of my approach to ministry, at least while at Rice, it would be that I keep things real. I'm nothing special at many things -- I don't have Mithun's insight or Peter's boldness or Kurt's wisdom or Pat's initiative or James's diligence or David's kindness, but I do think one thing that I bring to the table is that I try not to front. I try not to say things I don't really mean, and I try not to make empty statements. I'm not cynical -- I think what's real is that God loves us and has a wonderful plan for our lives, so that's cause to be genuinely joyful. I call people out on things, including myself. I keep things real. Or at least, I like to think so.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Zion

If we believe the Bible, then shouldn't we all be Zionist?

There are a lot of things I feel that mature Christians can disagree about -- for me, I think there are a number of issues that are certainly important, but it's probably okay if believers don't come to clear conclusions on them because the issues aren't necessarily clear themselves:

1. Predestination vs. Free Will
2. Creationism vs. Biblical Evolution.
3. Different Eschatologies
4. Other important issues.

But I do feel like all Christians who take the Bible seriously should be Zionist.

I bring it up because my roommate is anti-Israel. Not anti-Semitic, I'm pretty sure, just anti-Israel.

There's something of a progression for the Gentile believer, and I guess I'll lay out some of the thoughts that go into it. What do you make of verses like these?

I establish My covenant between Me and you and your descendants after you in their generations, for an everlasting covenant, to be God to you and your descendants after you. Also I give to you and your descendants after you the land in which you are a stranger, all the land of Canaan, as an everlasting possession; and I will be their God. -- Genesis 17

How shall we sing the Lord's song in a foreign land? If I forget you, O Jerusalem, let my right hand forget its skill! If I do not remember you, let my tongue cling to the roof of my mouth -- if I do not exalt Jerusalem above my chief joy. -- Psalm 137

For Zion's sake, I will not hold my peace, and for Jerusalem's sake, I will not rest, until her righteousness goes forth as brightness and her salvation as a lamp that burns. The Gentiles shall see your righteousness and all kings your glory. As a young man marries a virgin, so shall your sons marry you; and as a bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall God rejoice over you. -- Isaiah 62

I have set watchmen on your walls, O Jerusalem; They shall never hold their peace, day or night. You who make mention of the Lord, do not keep silent, and give Him no rest till He establishes and till He makes Jerusalem a praise in the earth. And they shall call them The Holy People, The Redeemed of the Lord; And you shall be called Sought Out, A City Not Forsaken. -- Isaiah 62

O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the one who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing! See! Your house is left to you desolate, for I say to you, you shall see Me no more, until you say, "Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!" -- Matthew 23

And of course, the entirety of Romans 11.

The Christian believer now runs into a few options, all of which have many subscribers:

a) Replacement Theology. The Church is effectively the new Israel.
b) Christian Semitism. We are called to love the Jewish people because of Jesus.
c) Christian Zionism. We are called to love the Jewish people and support the state of Israel because of Jesus.

Here's a link that'll give you a lot to think about.

Do some thinking and praying. This is important -- it is clear that the matter is important to God. As a Christian, are you called to feel or act a certain way towards Israel or the Jewish people? I'll update this one later, but what do you think?

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Fight Club

So I saw the movie Fight Club for the first time in its entirety, and I really, really liked it. I don't think it's a movie Christians are supposed to like. Not because of all the violence and sex and profanity, necessarily, but because its hero, Tyler Durden, is awesome and larger-than-life, and he's unapologetically nihilistic, disestablishmentarianist, uninhibited, destructive, hormonal, and everything Galatians 5 is not.

I spend a lot of time with movies like these thinking, "Fuck it! Why not?" and wondering whether I should feel guilty for that.

I suspect a lot of guys identify strongly with the movie. In a lot of ways, it was like Wild at Heart. Its message was primarily an anti-consumerist one, but to the males in the audience, it said, you've been emasculated by society, your idea of an adventure right now is to order something new and different from IKEA, and it's time to break through the constructed walls you've set up and do something awesome and feel pain and feel alive for the first time. I don't think that's inherently a bad message. It smacks of the attacks the New Testament brings against legalism and artifice. And it reminded me a lot of Wild at Heart. But the issue I had with Wild at Heart was that it glorified the means, and not the end. Jesus is more or less your safari guide to a life of adventure. Sure, it's great to be wild and adventurous and pursue things with, what was that overused phrase, "reckless abandon," but where do you go with it? What happens when you need some discipline to attain something great?

I know there are a lot of compelling reasonable reasons not to identify with Fight Club and not to admire Tyler Durden, but I'm a pretty impulsive person who can forget why I try to live how I try to live pretty easily because I identify easily with stories and characters. I have an active imagination that leads me to identify strongly with other perspectives more than to judge and distill their merit. I read Through Painted Deserts and I really want to take a spontaneous, unplanned road trip. I read Ender's Game and I feel like Ender, too smart and too capable and too destined for a normal life. I read The Sun Also Rises and I think I'm disillusioned and feel like sitting around somewhere like Spain idly, fishing and drinking because there's nothing better for me and my Lost Generation to do. So when I watch or read or think about an appealing character or story that brings along an un-biblical philosophy, it's hard for me to get off the bus and to re-center myself by remembering Christianity -- to me, it just feels like swapping one philosophy or paradigm or system for another.

Maybe that's why in 2 Timothy 2, Paul writes to Timothy to "remember Jesus Christ." It seems obvious in biblical context, usually because we've been reading the Bible or we're surrounded by Christians when we take a look at 2 Timothy. But maybe Timothy was like me, and maybe Timothy had times when he was hanging out with the gnostics, and they were talking about how God was transcendent beyond the confines of this physical world, which is just a construct anyway, and maybe Timothy knew that logically, metaphysically, it was crap, but found himself nodding along and agreeing anyway because it was compelling and answered some questions for him. But the person of Jesus, the way He walked and saw the world, and sees the world, and shares His perspective and His love and His character is incredibly gripping too, in a way that an ethical paradigm or a religious practice is not.

Maybe the best way to forget Tyler Durden is to think of Jesus. Maybe that's why Timothy and I both needed to hear what sounds so unnecessary to say -- "remember Jesus Christ."

Thursday, June 12, 2008

The One

"If I wasn't made for you, then why does my heart tell me that I am?"

I think a lot of young Christian guys and girls have to wrestle with the idea of The One: whether there is one specific pre-ordained, pre-destined girl out there that I'm supposed to find or be with, or whether any nice, godly girl has the potential to be my future wife, given enough time, care, love, and grace.

If there were only The One:

- That would coincide well with a lot of biblical precedent, such as Isaac and Rebekah.
- I could believe that the girl I marry is by definition The One, since God orchestrates His will in our lives.
- I could conversely believe that the girl I marry might not be The One, since we can sin and foul up God's plan for us, and I would probably wonder with every girl whether she's The One or not, especially when things got sticky or complicated or imperfect.
- I would be very upset and frustrated if I ended up alone or single past the age of forty or so. I'd try to take comfort in the fact that maybe God's timing is different than my expectations, but probably I'd just feel like I missed the boat when it passed by.

If The One is not a valid idea:

- Then I could conceivably make it with any godly, lovely girl, since love is an act of will and commitment and work and sacrifice, not just attraction and emotion.
- Then I wouldn't be tied to wondering constantly whether the girl is The One because I've in essence made her The One.
- That last conclusion might lead to a very works-centered approach to my relationship.
- Also, what prevents me from having multiple relationships with multiple women? Since there is no magical One, there can certainly be Two, right? Or is there just One, and she's not specific? Also, is there any drawback to just cutting my losses and moving on from a hard relationship, since I'm not forsaking any The One girl?

Whenever I've had this discussion with people, it always brings up a number of strangely familiar issues about how God's will plays into what happens, what doesn't happen, what might have happened, or what should happen in our lives. Do we have a say? Do we have an active role? Is that from us or from God? Is foreknowledge the same as control and responsibility?

Pat Hastings made the great point that this discussion boils down to predestination vs. free will for a good reason. One of the big points of finding a wife and the institution of marriage is to model Christ and His church. So it makes sense that we'd run into the same questions.

I was at my friend Russell's wedding in North Carolina this weekend, and I really think Russell found his The One woman in Katherine. But I think it also took him a lot of labor, love, grace, and sacrifice to get there.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

1 Cor 3:5-9

5 What, after all, is Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants, through whom you came to believe—as the Lord has assigned to each his task. 6 I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. 7 So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. 8 The man who plants and the man who waters have one purpose, and each will be rewarded according to his own labor. 9 For we are God's fellow workers; you are God's field, God's building.

It's a very simple analogy: our ministry is like the farmer, planting and watering, and waiting on the Lord to deliver the miraculous increase. But I think this analogy helps us avoid a lot of traps, especially in evangelism. I used it in a brief study today.

- If we forget that God gives the increase, then we start to believe that evangelism is wholly our labor. This notion can lead to a few things. We begin to believe that we're directly responsible for the entire outcome of all our actions and conversations. We suddenly feel like we're under enormous pressure to share the gospel, in its entirety, to a person who might not be ready to hear everything. We can fall to spiritual pride, taking the credit for results that were entirely God's doing, and forgetting that we are, as Paul says, only servants. We also fall to doubt. When we see that an approach isn't the most promising, as initiative evangelism sometimes seems unworkable, then we can easily decide to give in to doubt and forgo trying, forgetting the surprising miraculousness of God and forgetting that it is often an act of faith, and that we haven't got God all figured out.

- If we forget that we have a role in the planting, sowing, and harvesting, then we also fall into a few traps. In attributing the growth of a harvest wholly to the mysterious workings of God, we can begin to believe very literally in "no fail evangelism," where any attempt is considered valuable because God can and does bless every attempt made in faith to spread His word. I've seen a lot of pushy evangelists that have really turned their listeners off to the gospel who say in earnest, "Mission accomplished: I did my part, and now it's up to them and God as to what they do with it." The other extreme can also follow if we forget our own role: we have no reason to follow the Great Commission, since God does all the work anyway. A farmer who recognizes that God gives him the crop harvest every year doesn't just not do any work planting or watering -- he recognizes that his labor is the way God has chosen to bring about the harvest.

- Sometimes we think, more sowing means more harvest, and we toss the seeds wildly, instead of carefully plowing and nurturing the plants. Sometimes we think too hard on nurturing one plant, forgetting the breadth of our fields and that we are to be efficient laborers and stewards for God.

There's a lot you can take from that particular analogy. Is it God who does the work in people's hearts? Yes. So do I really have an important role in the growth of God's kingdom? Romans 10 provides some insight:

14 How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? 15 And how can they preach unless they are sent?

God can make a crop grow from nothing. Don't believe He can't. But He chooses to use the hardworking farmer to bring it about by patience, sweat, faith, and diligence. I think that's some simple wisdom.

Friday, May 23, 2008

Out-Reach

So I was sitting in the section of the Rice Memorial Center where all the GLBT magazines sit neatly in their racks, and the cover of OutSmart caught my eye. I ended up reading an article, a letter addressed to Joel Osteen, that I found really interesting -- here are some excerpts:

"Silence can say harsh things. Joel Osteen's refusal to speak an opinion on God and homosexuality has ruffled either side of the issue -- those who say it's a sin and those who believe it's not. A man who reaches more than 40,000 people at Lakewood each week and another 200 million television viewers worldwide should take a stand on one of today's most pressing societal issues."

"Mr. Osteen...expect a group of at least two dozen gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgenders, along with their families and supportive church leaders, to visit Lakewood on Mother's Day. Lakewood is the first of six megachurches that The American Family Outing will attend through Father's Day hoping to address family, faith, and sexual orientation in friendly sit-down conversations with members of those congregations."

The article went on to discuss the AFO's initiative to start dialogues with large Christian communities to reconcile the belief and cultural differences between the two groups.

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This irony in this article is staggering. Who is supposed to be reaching out to whom?

It is humbling to realize that the gay community, or some organizations within it, are reaching out in love and reconciliation to the very body of Christ that is supposed to have lovingly and sacrificially brought that gospel to them. It's about as paradoxical as Gentiles reaching out to the Jews through whom God revealed Himself and His word and His Son. God has a funny way of flipping peoples' roles.

Here are my basic thoughts on the issue:

-- Pursuing homosexuality is a sin. It's no worse a sin than any other, and no better.

-- Homosexuality is made more controversial than other sins for three reasons: one, it's often seen as a natural, inherent part of a person's identity, and two, people are often very proud, defensive, and indignant about homosexuality in a way you wouldn't see with other sins, and three, it doesn't have the immediate apparent destructive consequences of some other sins, for example, murder or stealing.

-- It's not the best argument to say that homosexuality must be controllable, or must be a sinful choice, because God says it's wrong in the Bible. People are born with a sin nature, a natural inclination to sin. People who are born with bad tempers are naturally predisposed to wrath; people who are horny are predisposed to sexual sin and lust. By this reasoning, I do think people can be born with homosexual temperaments.

I often forget that our relationship with God is always grace first. I think gays often get the message that they have to change themselves before they can enter God's house and worship Him with His family. It's really the other way around. God's grace enables and necessitates transformation, not for gays, but for everyone. I think liberal Christianity often plays down the fact that sin, including homosexual sin, brings death. The grace of Jesus Christ is the only means for that -- we need to tell each other that! Doesn't that provide a great answer to the question of whether to be zealous for God's standards or whether to be loving and accepting? I think when people get stuck hard on the question of love versus justice, they are forgetting in part the magnitude and transformative nature of God's grace.

We are very hypocritical. I found myself glancing around the RMC every few minutes to see if anyone I knew were walking by watching me read OutSmart. I wondered if people would think I was gay, and then I wondered why in the world that should bother me, when we all profess to be redeemed sinners. I think many of my friends suffer from the same self-consciousness.

It looks like in this case, the AFO has their priorities in order, and it is humbling. People making themselves right isn't God's game, for defiant homosexuals or for self-righteous Christians. God's Kingdom is about encouraging each other to pursue God, and letting everything else follow from His grace and redemption. And after we remove the plank from our own eyes, God still wants us to help others get their splinters out.